Definition

BDE (“Big Dick Energy”): a calm, effortless, and secure confidence—magnetic and unbothered, not cocky; a gender‑neutral vibe, not literal.

Examples

"She walked into the meeting with BDE—calm, unbothered, and instantly commanding the room without bragging."

"That skater radiates BDE: chill confidence that draws people in, not a hint of cockiness."

"They took the loss with BDE, congratulating the winner and staying cool like it was all part of the process."